Affirming Therapy for All

Transform Your Life, Transform Your World

Specialized Affirming Therapy Celebrating Sexual, Gender, and Neurodiversity in Bloomington, MN


Transforming the human struggle of repression and oppression into a life of confidence, and authenticity through sex affirming, gender affirming, and neurodivergent affirming therapy and wellness services.

Inner Love, Inner Peace Through Affirming Therapy

Being yourself is the greatest joy in life.

Starting on the path to self-improvement and healing should be a curious, creative, and validating experience without judgment or fear.

Overcoming the stigma of therapy for struggles related to sex, gender, and neurodivergence can be freeing, and we understand the difficulties of navigating modern life with both.

That’s why we practice affirming therapy for all.

Shame-Free, Guilt-Free Discovery

Embracing your authentic self.

Letting your freak flag fly.

Being a free-spirited and expressive.

Sounds like a dream, right?

While these freedoms are not always welcomed in the modern world,  Transform Psychotherapy provides a space where you can begin your journey of self-discovery that can be understood through acceptance of who you truly are and teach you the skills to release harmful past experiences.

With support, you can become comfortable with flying whatever flag you choose and enlighten your inner voice to express itself to the world.

Only an affirming therapist can truly associate your past feelings of being marginalized and misunderstood with understanding and care. Together we can address post-trauma and oppression for a fulfilling future where you can truly be you.

Compassionate Affirming Therapy

It is our true passion to be beside you on your path to a mindful and meaningful life where you can find long-term comfort and confidence and celebrate your unique self.

Day-to-day life can feel like an eternal struggle with communication difficulties, trauma, and identification and the additional difficulty of coming to terms with previous actions or words can make you feel like you don’t belong.

No matter what your wonderful, beautiful, and unique story is, we listen and focus on developing self-awareness, social skills and affirming therapy o foster healthy relationships and sexual practices through the following specialized services:

We offer Telehealth to anyone in the state of Minnesota and in-person therapy sessions at our office in Bloomington, MN.

LGBTQIA Counseling

Inside or outside the binary, let’s discover what is true for you. Whether you are exploring gender or sexuality, we can help you navigate.

Sex Therapy

Don’t let sexual difficulties impact your quality of life. We can help with sexual desire, sexual dysfunction and Queer and Trans Sex.


All relationships deserve therapy! We support monogamous and ethically non-monogamous couples, polycules, Kink, BDSM, and more.


Let's lean into your unique brain. We help neurodivergent humans learn how their brains funtction and adapt our services as necessary.

Meet Mel Day

Mel (they/them) is a compassionate and dedicated therapist who understands the complexity of the human experience. As a Neurodivergent, Queer Femme, Mel has navigated their own journey of self-compassion and liberation, and is now committed to helping others do the same.

Let's work together!